It’s not an info easily obtainable here. I didn’t know your gender as I don’t know gender of 95% of this forum. I can deduce from account name but that’s not reliable. So I too use “they” unless I can remember a user declaring themselves a certain gender. It has nothing to do with being woke - it’s just not knowing a user that much…My gender is not “unknown, irrelevant, or nonbinary, or [...] needs to be concealed.”
It’s alienating to pretend otherwise.
For instance: what gender am I?