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One way of describing the history of human civilization is precisely the undoing (or more accurately, the modulation) of “perfectly natural responses”. Why do you think it’s been so difficult for societies to overcome racism? Because it was originally a natural response, necessary when humans lived in small groups and needed to be able to identify and exclude non-kin. Racists were more likely to survive than those who did not react with fear and/or hostility towards those who didn’t look like them.
Why do you think rape has always been a serious problem? Because at one time it was a perfectly natural response of males, selected by evolution to impregnate as many females as possible. Rapists left more progeny than more gentlemanly primates.
Why do you think obesity is a serious problem? Because at one time overeating, and particularly gorging on high calorie foods like fat, and quick energy foods like sugar, was a highly successful strategy when meals might be few and far between. Gluttons were less likely to starve than those who ate moderately.
We can’t change the fact that we have drives for eating, sex, aggression, and so on. The idea is not to deny the existence of these drives, but allow them to be modified by our intelligence and collective social knowledge. We lose something in the process, but also gain something. The same large forebrain that collectively has imposed an increasing number of restrictions on our sexual desires has also made it possible to experience during sex thoughts and emotions far beyond what our ancestors knew.
Scott SoCal said:If the social change you are looking for requires the undoing of perfectly natural responses between the sexes then you will be left wanting.
One way of describing the history of human civilization is precisely the undoing (or more accurately, the modulation) of “perfectly natural responses”. Why do you think it’s been so difficult for societies to overcome racism? Because it was originally a natural response, necessary when humans lived in small groups and needed to be able to identify and exclude non-kin. Racists were more likely to survive than those who did not react with fear and/or hostility towards those who didn’t look like them.
Why do you think rape has always been a serious problem? Because at one time it was a perfectly natural response of males, selected by evolution to impregnate as many females as possible. Rapists left more progeny than more gentlemanly primates.
Why do you think obesity is a serious problem? Because at one time overeating, and particularly gorging on high calorie foods like fat, and quick energy foods like sugar, was a highly successful strategy when meals might be few and far between. Gluttons were less likely to starve than those who ate moderately.
We can’t change the fact that we have drives for eating, sex, aggression, and so on. The idea is not to deny the existence of these drives, but allow them to be modified by our intelligence and collective social knowledge. We lose something in the process, but also gain something. The same large forebrain that collectively has imposed an increasing number of restrictions on our sexual desires has also made it possible to experience during sex thoughts and emotions far beyond what our ancestors knew.