Off the shelf? Nah . Find a competent dedicated wheelbuilder , one who makes them that "stand"(no tuning required after they're built). I've had a set of 36h Mavic A719 and T519 rims(24.6mm wide) hand built with Phil Wood hubs and have never needed to touch them, that's why I'm willing to pay a dedicated professional. Few shops, if any employ such people... they often work for themselves. I've had many a wheel built by in house wheelbuilders that claim greatness, but are not. It wasn't until I went to a independent professional did i get the wheels I wanted. . .. strong ... and made to stand. If a shop or wheelbuilder says you need to come in to get your wheels tuned after riding them awhile ... they don't build wheels that stand . . . I run from these people!
Also, make sure you use adequate tires.... for your weight a 35-38mm tire(or wider if you like). I ride daily on 45mm tires and love them, my roads are crappola too. There's no substitute for larger tires on such roads.
I'm not one to cheap out on hubs, as I look at wheel as a single unit once it's built. A wheel overall is only as good as the cheapest component you choose. . . so don't cheap out. I'm a fan of cartridge bearing hubs because the bearings are easily replaced. Shimano hubs, I won't touch... here we are in 2011 and they are still using cups and cones ....

C' mon! To each their own though.
It pays to invest in the best wheel parts you can find.. . . built by the best hands you can find. I value my wheels as much, if not more, than my frames.