Bexon30 said:
Fabulous help. If anyone knows of useful books or tips on places they cycle with children on bike paths across Europe any info would be most grateful. Bexon.
I was under the impression that you'd fixed your list of countries but if not, it's a good idea to look beyond that and target particular regions instead.
For example, you wouldn't take a little kid out here in many parts of Belgium but I see a lot of that in the foresty parts of Limburg and on the excellent RaVEL network in Wallonie, where I often see kids learning to ride a bike.
Equally, the French Mediterranean coast can be a bit patchy on the whole but the beachy bits of Hérault in particular make for lovely riding and are full of stimulating sights for little kids (kite flying, dune birds, rollerbladers, boats, etc).
Don't forget that StreetView is your friend:
http://goo.gl/maps/eptNv
http://goo.gl/maps/v905s
http://goo.gl/maps/zTCEC
Also visit
http://www.openstreetmap.org/ and select the "Cycle Map" layer: that's an excellent resource.
If you're a two-parent family, ride two abreast and fill both sides of the path, letting the kid(s) ride up front. It might seem a bit selfish but it will alert faster moving cyclists that they need to slow down and when they get close enough to find out why, they'll be cool about it.
People know and expect this stuff, so you shouldn't worry too much about encountering an angry peloton or some marauding triathlete fool.
It is ironic that, whilst the ubiquity of cars on roads enables us somewhat to ride passively despite their sometimes irritating presence, people on cycle paths tend to be a very alert and careful of others despite fewer obvious dangers.