Parrulo said:meh its just humor. i thought it was very funny. i hate how every time we make a joke about some1 cus he is white or cus he is jew or cus he is asian and all that its fine, but if the person you make the joke about is black your a racist. its just stupid.
just my opinion . . .
As a regular forum reader, I tend to stay silent -- I think I've posted maybe two or three times. I don't really have the time or energy to jump into the hundreds of really ridiculous, and often hilarious frays going on here. Car wrecks are fun to watch, not be a part of. Well... you get the point. This, however, is not an issue on which I can, in good conscience, remain silent.
At first glance, the comment might seem to be just another inane little interweb turd. What's the big harm right? You say "its (sic) just humor". Everybody likes humor right? Sure!
Well, except for people of color, oft-marginalized or oppressed people when the so-called humor only serves the purpose of reinforcing and reinscribing harmful stereotypes that actively serve in their repression. So yeah, black people (whether African-Americans, Afro-Caribbean French, or whatever other instantiation you foolishly choose) are thieves! They ALL steal bicycles. They can't see a bicycle without nicking it. Now, when a stereotype like this is continually reproduced in public discourse (even in a timesuck like this forum), I wonder what effect it has on societies. Maybe people of color have more difficulty getting loans than whites (that doesn't happen in America does it?!) or maybe they're stopped by law enforcement for no reason because of their color. Now I could go on and on, but I won't -- presumably you've stopped reading already. But in case you have not, maybe I'll just recommend a book. Racism Without Racists by Eduardo Bonilla-Silva.
My main question Parullo, is this. What is humorous about the comment? It's not particularly clever, nor is it ironic. I've tried to think about things that I find funny, and public stereotyping and open racism don't really show up that often. Now maybe this was an aberration in your behavior. How could I know? Your pretty safe behind that computer screen. Maybe you'd never say something like that when physically surrounded by people... people who might be offended by your lack of sensitivity, tact, couth...
As for your defense, I'm not really sure I follow. You're right, humor directed at stereotypes at whites is often received differently than humor against people of color, but I don't see this as particularly supportive of your defense. People of color are regularly marginalized in white-dominated societies. These stereotypes are harmful. Pseudo-jokes such as this are never benign. Once you say it, it's out there, and you've contributed. So when it comes to racial discourse, whether it's humor, academic writing, or simple conversation with friends or strangers, we all have a responsibility.
The point is, if the issue of global racial equality was a game, and the sides were "for" and "against", you just played, whether you knew it or not, and everybody here knows what side you were on.
Next time use your head... For that matter, try to use it all the time my friend.
Sincerely,
Graham Slater
University of Colorado-Boulder
