I have to say that this parable is spot on. However, commenting looks as in looks and personality should be a no go zone. Behavior in and during competetion is something else, and I think your point is valid.It's about her exuding that vibe of a Disneyland member of staff, of 'forced fun', like it isn't enough to be enthusiastic or happy, you have to make sure that everybody knows at all times that you are enthusiastic and happy, and that's extremely tiresome - precisely as in Sciatic's anecdote.