ukpaul said:
Americans have the worst manners I have ever come across I've lived and worked in the US and now on an American military base in Iraq and belive me you guys are terrible, the worst thing is its down to awareness. You havn't got a clue your acctually rude, that is the reason why your disliked all over the world and that is why Phinney would be better off going to Europe and adopting there lifestyle.
That's an awfully broad generalization to make. You've managed to state that two full continents of people are rude...and that one continent, and what is considered politeness there, is the solution. Was this your intent?
I think what's considered polite and what is considered rude largely depends on the society that one was raised and/or lives in.
An example, if you like. Where I lived and rode in the US it was considered customary and polite to wave a greeting to passing cyclists going the other direction. I've done this my entire cycling life. Where I live and ride now, it is not customary. I still wave, and on rare occasions I get a wave back. Is that rude? Or just not the custom here? I think the latter.
The exact same scenario can be applied with a passing greeting of "hello" or "good day" in the southeast US, where it is considered polite to do so...but it doesn't happen here at all. At best, the passers-by find it odd behavior on my part. Again, it's not rude and I don't take it that way.
I'm not saying there aren't rude people in the US...
Just like I'm not saying there aren't rude people in Europe...
There are such places...in the US and in Europe.
But, and this is important, for every place I've been where there are rude people, I've been to as many, if not more, places where I've met many a polite person. Both in the US and Europe.