Susan Westemeyer said:
This is a sports forum, and sexually-related terms and discussions are inappropriate.
Susan
Susan Westemeyer said:
I cannot control the content of the ads. I can only control -- to an extent -- the content of the forum postings.
Susan
Susan Westemeyer said:
I am not responsible for the ads. And I refuse to allow them to take control of the postings in this forum.
Susan
I do sympathize with you for the position you are in, but I disagree with this way of handling it. First, I laugh when someone suggests that a reference to "titties" is sexual content. Each to their own, but I just don't see a reference to a part of a woman's body at the same level as a discussion of sex acts. This isn't boarding school circa 1955.
You cannot control the ads, and I am sure they have been nothing but a headache for you. But they are a part of the forum and their content influences the forum. To say that, CN is going to profit by showing breasts in the forum, but members cannot discuss breasts in the forum is ridiculous to the point of being insulting. The forum is the forum; the ads are not separate from the posts. You didn't start this mess, but you took ownership of it once you started to moderate based on a principle of "we can do it but you cannot". Your moderation policy has tied you firmly to FP/CN even though your posts have been boob-free. Inappropriate is inappropriate; if it's not good for the goose, the gander had better not be making a buck on the side.
Like many of the numerous non-issues that have been over-moderated here, this fire would have died as a spark had it been ignored.