Thorn Cycling said:I know it's that way in many areas, but not all. In the region I live, at least, Gays and Lesbians get along fairly well (on the most part), Bisexuals (at least from what I've seen, I'm still in the closet there, a closet filled with fabulous team skinsuits and kits) are normally told to pick a side more by straight people than Gays and Lesbians, and Transgender people are accepted fairly well by a fair amount of the LGB community. It might just be my area (three big college towns in an otherwise mostly conservative state), but what you're saying is still not true everywhere. But I do agree about the political approach part.
My experience is based in large metropolitan areas like NYC or LA. Even in London a bunch of us( three straight couples, two gay couples) went to a new dance club, we get there and it turned out to be a lesbian club. They told us the girls could stay but all the guys had to leave, even the gay guys.
In NYC, the gay clubs used to have metal grates in front so the lesbians who wore high heels would get them caught in the grate. Even in West Hollywood, the transgenders are not welcome in most gay clubs and anyone with breasts is turned away at bath houses.The transgenders basically were left to congregate at one club outside of WeHo or a coffee shop to avoid the abuse. I have been present and seen gays walk up to transgenders, tell them they make an "ugly woman" and suggest they leave. Very hateful. Most of the gay men i know consider Bi men to be cowards. That they are too afraid to come all the way out of the closet and stand up for themselves and instead "run home to little wifey" for protection.
I hope it is different in your community like you say. Actually some areas like the midwest or the south there is much more tolerance oddly enough.My family has a farm and there are lesbians and gays who also farm in that community. Everyone gets along pretty good and is pretty respectful. I think the problem might be really when you get very large groups together all of a sudden life becomes west side story
Anyway I hope this helps. I think the cycling community is very accepting, like i said in Socal we have transsexuals who raced as well as gays, lesbians & bisexuals. Even had two bisexual guys and one gay guy on my old team, no one cared. In Socal they even had a couple of gay cycling clubs. And a Lesbian club too. Good luck in your racing & life.