ChrisE said:
I'm bald. One of the reasons I put Chaka as my avatar now is because I wish I was hairy like him. Now I'm not so sure since you are into bald guys.
You think we have a chance? I'm looking for younger women now.
BTW OAR has hair.
Sure, Many of my girlfriends and I love bald men, and others don't care either way. My husband is bald. Has been since he was 24, before I met him. This crap about guys having to have hair is some media/fashion world beat-up that doesn't reflect reality. People aren't perfect and a lot of young people and cougar-types buy into this idealism (their hypocrisy is also galling). They're bound to be disappointed in the long run. There is so much more to people than their outside surfaces, and only when we get past this can real love and passion take place.
It's the same with guys and big peanises. Women are told to love this and desire it, but it's rubbish because they hurt like hell and the guys with them tend to be self-obsessed.
I by no means am a dating expert, but some things ring true: sincerity. Being Genuine and cultivating the better sides of one's personality. It doesn't guarantee success in love, but love is a risk afterall. In the end, if someone doesn't want you, you shouldn't want them. Monogamy has a good side: one man for every woman. Take a risk, don't be discouraged if at first you don't succeed; you'll be pleasantly surprised before long.
I did research as a grad student in the 90s on the sex industry. The working girls were pretty unaminous: all guys think everyone else is getting heaps and even the best-looking guys get rejected and don't get enough. So chin up, life can suck and it is unfair, but together we can help each other.
Sorry for the heartfelt monologue!