First off, I'd like to say that I participate in message boards for another sport and from what I see there's not much difference in what I read there from what I read on these cycling forums. People are people everywhere and the media platform is the same. The output should be fairly predictable.
For example, RigelKent is a putz.
Beyond all the above I'll take a stab at a couple of points that seem to have come up in this conversation:
1. Why do we care about these cyclists who we don't know or will never meet?
2. Why do we talk the way we do about them?
1. Look, this is sport. Fans decide to give their emotion to a particular sport or team because they want to be involved. The involvement can be in many ways but normally from the perspective that it allows us to compete, figuratively, in some way. IMO people who don't like to compete are generally not very emotionally involved fans. Those of us with competitive natures like an output. Some of us can barely throw a frisbee but we love the feeling of winning. Others of us can compete in 1 or more sports at a pretty high level, but still find it interesting to follow certain sports as a fan.
We have emotional energy or passion available to give, we have a desire, we pick something interesting and we get into it.
We attach ourselves to various teams or participants for whatever many reasons are attractive to us. They are participants in the sport for the most part, not humans. That sounds cold but really, isn't that true? They are meaningless to us except for the value they bring to our fan experience. We don't know them, we are not exposed to them, we likely have more than 3 degrees seperating us from most of them. Their value to us is not based on humanity, it's based on what we get from from.
That said, for some of us, maybe a lot of us, we prefer to hitch our wagons to individuals that we feel we can respect. Maybe it's people we can identify with, maybe it's people we want to be able to look up to. Maybe we even want a hero. So we find out about our favorites and are gratified that they are what we want them to be. Or we think they are. Or we are disappointed to find out they don't measure up. In that case maybe we move along to another target. Either way, we end up with people we feel comfortable identifying with (cheering for).
I think that is why we care about these people we don't know. I think that is where the emotional attachment comes from.
2. Why do we talk the way we do about them? Because we can. We're completely anonymous here. I wonder if we all used our first and last names rather than a generic ID, maybe add the city where we live, if we would still comment the way we do?
The fact that we can say what we want but hide in safety allows us to forget the effort necessary for polite or tactful conversation. We can let our base emotions free. For what harm is there to us?
To some extent I understand this. I can allow myself to do this as well and I have. But for the most part, I try to live with the guideline that you don't write something that you wouldn't want your subject or their family to read. Because based on my experience with message boards in other sports, that can and does happen. And I for one, even with my moniker, would still like to think that if one of them read what I wrote they may not like it but would consider it fair.
There's room for criticism and for differences of opinion, but it's a lot more fun and productive if people can be civil, are willing to state their points of view, provide facts to back up claims and exhibit an interest in honest dialogue.
But that's just me.