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while i was going to the trouble of writing the post, the thread was locked. But Im not going to waste it.
Im going to clarify what I said and what I meant. Last nights display in the clinic was just another example of the pack mentality in this place. It isnt the sole reason Ive had enough, so sorry arbiter, you cant quiet take either the credit for that, or put the blame on others, but it helped make a decision that to be honest I have been pondering for about three months. Its nothing to do with you, trolling or not, or even really their response. That just contributed to something I had already been thinking about.
Its because once certain posters get the bit between their teeth, they join forces, slap each other on the back, congratulate each other be it, putting down a forum poster, editing a wikipedia page, slamming a poster for daring to like a rider they dont like, attacking a "troll" and causing more chaos than the original troll, they bully and tease and torment.
I can deal with it, I just have one of my little rants and Im fine again, they chill me out and clear the air, but there are new posters who dont even dare post, there are many many posters who have left. The whole place is a laughing stock outside of the forum and is commonly referred to as a clique, or a bunch of girls, you only have to look around twitter or facebook or google to see what people think of this place. It can be very unwelcoming, daunting, and that generally is down to the agression of a select few people.
This forum allows people of 16 years old on here. Would you let your 16 year old take part in some of the conversations that go on, the rudeness, the adult language, the censor overriding to use censored words (and yes, thats something i am guilty of when im really ****ed off), the allowance of users to be called, and not deliberately singling out Hugh, but Huge Anus, there is so much that should have been cranked down on months ago that has been allowed to develop and now the place is a mess.
There are a handful of people who seem to have free reign, for whom there is no comeback when they bully people, or swear, or disrupt threads, and yes, no comeback when they take threads that where going along just fine, and spend more time shouting troll than being adult and simply reporting the problem to a moderator.
Im going to hold off from posting, not because It gets to me, I can deal with it, but because I cannot hold my tongue, and Im not bothered about saying what I think. We saw that last night until a lot of my posts where deleted, and the problem is, others came forward and agreed. The forum will end up split down the middle, and I aint being held responsible for that one. When you lot can grow up, learn to live with each other, learn to respect each others opinions even if you dont always agree with them, and try and stick to cycling which is ultimately what this forum is about, then ive got something to contribute.
God i sound self righteous, Im partly to blame myself, I could shut up and let things go but i tend to go at them like a dog with a wet rag. But, every action has a consequence, and some of you need to start to think before you post, think about what the consequence will be, will it be disruptive, will it make the problem worse, or even, will it upset the other person, because behind every set of random pixels, there is actually a real person. Ive seen people say things about TFF that where beyond reprehensible, people just need to stop and think before they do something.
Seriously though, I need a break before i really really kick off. Any race links or video will still be posted through teamskyfansm unless im done for having two usernames, but as far as personal posts go Im saying nothing, cos I will just snap, and that will do nothing to help the chaotic situation we have here.
As for Arbiter, personally, the current way of banning, rebanning, arguing doesnt work, so why not just give the guy a chance, if he says stuff you dont agree with then talk rationally and explain in an adult way why you dont agree, if you think he is trolling, then report it to the mods, what have you got to lose, the place is already a war zone, it can hardly get any worse can it.
As an aside, I see no reason why this post should join the list of deleted ones.
As an additional note, regarding last nights argument over the "troll", Something from Greg Johnson from Last July
message for RR said:It's only what Dimspace actually said in his last post! At least do him the service of reading it. He clearly states that his leaving was nothing to do with twitter - it was because YOU and your gang selfishly decided to ruin the thread. How ironic that you call me "out of touch". Maybe if you apologised to Dimspace for your trolling and promise not to do it again he and other decent people might comeback. People are just sick of it.
Im going to clarify what I said and what I meant. Last nights display in the clinic was just another example of the pack mentality in this place. It isnt the sole reason Ive had enough, so sorry arbiter, you cant quiet take either the credit for that, or put the blame on others, but it helped make a decision that to be honest I have been pondering for about three months. Its nothing to do with you, trolling or not, or even really their response. That just contributed to something I had already been thinking about.
Its because once certain posters get the bit between their teeth, they join forces, slap each other on the back, congratulate each other be it, putting down a forum poster, editing a wikipedia page, slamming a poster for daring to like a rider they dont like, attacking a "troll" and causing more chaos than the original troll, they bully and tease and torment.
I can deal with it, I just have one of my little rants and Im fine again, they chill me out and clear the air, but there are new posters who dont even dare post, there are many many posters who have left. The whole place is a laughing stock outside of the forum and is commonly referred to as a clique, or a bunch of girls, you only have to look around twitter or facebook or google to see what people think of this place. It can be very unwelcoming, daunting, and that generally is down to the agression of a select few people.
This forum allows people of 16 years old on here. Would you let your 16 year old take part in some of the conversations that go on, the rudeness, the adult language, the censor overriding to use censored words (and yes, thats something i am guilty of when im really ****ed off), the allowance of users to be called, and not deliberately singling out Hugh, but Huge Anus, there is so much that should have been cranked down on months ago that has been allowed to develop and now the place is a mess.
There are a handful of people who seem to have free reign, for whom there is no comeback when they bully people, or swear, or disrupt threads, and yes, no comeback when they take threads that where going along just fine, and spend more time shouting troll than being adult and simply reporting the problem to a moderator.
Im going to hold off from posting, not because It gets to me, I can deal with it, but because I cannot hold my tongue, and Im not bothered about saying what I think. We saw that last night until a lot of my posts where deleted, and the problem is, others came forward and agreed. The forum will end up split down the middle, and I aint being held responsible for that one. When you lot can grow up, learn to live with each other, learn to respect each others opinions even if you dont always agree with them, and try and stick to cycling which is ultimately what this forum is about, then ive got something to contribute.
God i sound self righteous, Im partly to blame myself, I could shut up and let things go but i tend to go at them like a dog with a wet rag. But, every action has a consequence, and some of you need to start to think before you post, think about what the consequence will be, will it be disruptive, will it make the problem worse, or even, will it upset the other person, because behind every set of random pixels, there is actually a real person. Ive seen people say things about TFF that where beyond reprehensible, people just need to stop and think before they do something.
Seriously though, I need a break before i really really kick off. Any race links or video will still be posted through teamskyfansm unless im done for having two usernames, but as far as personal posts go Im saying nothing, cos I will just snap, and that will do nothing to help the chaotic situation we have here.
As for Arbiter, personally, the current way of banning, rebanning, arguing doesnt work, so why not just give the guy a chance, if he says stuff you dont agree with then talk rationally and explain in an adult way why you dont agree, if you think he is trolling, then report it to the mods, what have you got to lose, the place is already a war zone, it can hardly get any worse can it.
As an aside, I see no reason why this post should join the list of deleted ones.
As an additional note, regarding last nights argument over the "troll", Something from Greg Johnson from Last July
TFF was banned for responding unacceptably to a troll. Just saying.Greg Johnson said:TFF will be back in 48 hours. Unfortunately he chose to engage in unacceptable behaviour in response to a troll rather than use the forum's built-in methods for notifying the moderators, despite being previously warned.
I welcome all of you to flag any post - or trolls - that you feel are inappropriate up to the moderators using the reporting system within the forum. People often post about us not addressing issues, however those are - generally speaking - people who have never brought an issue forward with the moderators.
Cheers
Greg Johnson