a post from the Weightweenies forum
You missed the point. The default should be to not start following somebody random at all. Imagine someone following you around while walking around town, or walking your dog. Always a few meters behind you, shadowing you on every step. Or someone following a women on a run, filming her. Ask any female friend you've got. Nobody is ok with that and "normal" people would not do that in the first place. It's uncomfortable, and most times harassment. Being on a bike doesn't change that. But somehow a lot of people forget that while riding their bikes.