Interesting, Merckx, thanks for explaining. I had the feeling that people here have different definitions of it, since some people are so charged up that this equals 'rape'.
It could well have been intended as you say if the poster subscribes to this point of view as well. Of that I have no idea.
That being said, when I hear being 'punished' in 'my bedroom' - it still reminds me of (perhaps older generation) fantasies of - say 'spanking' - where both parties mutally enjoy the 'punishment' - thus, without knowing the original posters intent, it still reads to me as a light S&M/kinky personal fantasy.
What is shocking to me (off topic) is how rape culture has grown over the years in the west and there's a growing population of men (in general, thankfully far from all!) that seem to believe sex is owed to them and that the best sex is non-consensual. So it's a highly charged subject for me as well. But - I digress..... back to cycling....!
It could well have been intended as you say if the poster subscribes to this point of view as well. Of that I have no idea.
That being said, when I hear being 'punished' in 'my bedroom' - it still reminds me of (perhaps older generation) fantasies of - say 'spanking' - where both parties mutally enjoy the 'punishment' - thus, without knowing the original posters intent, it still reads to me as a light S&M/kinky personal fantasy.
What is shocking to me (off topic) is how rape culture has grown over the years in the west and there's a growing population of men (in general, thankfully far from all!) that seem to believe sex is owed to them and that the best sex is non-consensual. So it's a highly charged subject for me as well. But - I digress..... back to cycling....!