I thought about photoshopping Colbrelli’s face over Jack Nicholson’s with the caption “Here’s Sonny!” but maybe some people wouldn’t find that funny. I’m quite sure the person that reported me has been playing coy in this topic as one of the defenders of moderating “
You have to move on and let go at some point. ”, so i didn’t want to risk causing this person a heart attack. Ba-dum-tshh.
Anywho, i only noticed two days ago that this discussion was going on in here. Allow me to add a few things, not just about what happened last month, but also my personal view on what i feel is a problematic relationship between CN and its forum members. Unfortunately, about the former i can not say all i have/want to say because it could get me banned, as discussing it appears to be a bannable offence as well. I thought about making everything clear with a hypothetical story about a poster named “nonsense-is-not-your-friend” getting banned in the “Eddy Merckx is the old Remco Evenepoel topic” but that would get old and tedious fast.
Considering i can not talk about what i did in order to get banned, surely i should be able to say what i did NOT do. So let me start by making one thing crystal clear. I did not mock or rejoice over the fact that Colbrelli suffered a cardiac arrest and nearly died, as people insinuated. I have put Netserk on ignore for his repeated mocking of Evenepoel’s crash in Lombardia and its consequences. It’s not my style. I did not even mention this accident, nor did i allude or refer to it as was claimed. For those who actually read my post, you might remember i mentioned a timeframe. Why would i literally speak of “within 12 months” when Colbrelli’s accident occurred exactly 6 months after the event i was speaking of. Sure, 6 months falls within that timeframe, but why wouldn’t i just say 6 months if that was what i was referring to? Furthermore, if i wanted to make a personal attack on Colbrelli, i would much rather attack his ties to Berlusconi and his remarks regarding Mussolini.
Someone here wondered whether i might have been rude/offensive to a mod “behind the scenes” in order to get my ban extended. No, I was not. In fact, it is impossible. When you get banned you are greeted with an “Oops, we ran into some problems” error message with a cold “You have been banned. Your ban will be lifted
date/time”. That’s it. You can’t even read the forum, for that you need to log out (lol). The only thing you can see is your notifications and PM icons, but you can not click on them. So i have seen that someone sent me a private message 3 weeks ago, but i could not read, let alone respond to it. Funny story actually, because that message turns out came from an admin who removed an unrelated post, claiming it was against the rules, yet there was no mention of that rule in the forum rules he linked me to. Not only that, but even if the rule (s)he spoke of existed, the post i made would not even fit the description to begin with. Amazing. But just to put your minds at ease, the claimed infraction was about me posting freely available news that i had translated to share on the forum. Dingalingaling. That’s what we’re dealing with here. Anyway, back on topic.
There is also no reason given for why you are banned. You also don’t know which mod banned you. There is no way to appeal or to ask for clarification. Basically bureaucracy at it’s finest, but things get even better and veer further into Kafka territory when it appears your message gets deleted and talking about what happened can get you banned again. It does however give you a good understanding of what riders at DSM must be going through.
The perfect liability loop. Ban a person, delete what he said, and make discussing it a bannable offence. How can you be wrong. To see -what i previously considered- sane posters come in here to defend this chain of authority, seemingly at ease with the assumption that
“if X got banned, i’m sure (s)he had it coming”, imposes a strong feeling that there is an enormous lack of critical thinking on the forum, and most definitely a lack of self reflection among the admins.
It might surprise people, but i am a founder/admin/mod of a different forum myself. A forum nearly a decade old, just shy of 1000 members, so nothing so big. However, it is that forum’s policy not to delete any messages. Posts that warrant a warning (5 strikes you’re out) or a direct ban, get moved to a closed topic (meaning posters can not reply in/to that topic) which is dedicated specifically to that purpose. That means it is for all to see what the poster did, without interpretation of a mod. There is no “i never said/did that” retord possible, not even months later. Everyone can see what you did, and as such it also acts as a deterrent and cautionary tale. This was exactly the reason why i made that change in policy, because posters would cry “fake news” when confronted with their misbehaviour/abuse at a later time, especially repeat offenders. Only now nobody can reply to it, and the post (and follow ups) are removed from the original topic, so further off-topic discussion regarding the violation is highly unlikely. If the issue is brought up publicly again in a respectable manner, with concerns to moderation being unfair or unjust, there are no consequences and the mod team will get some critical feedback from the community, even if the mod determines the ban stands. When forum rules were originally made or amended afterwards, we always requested the feedback of the community before going forward. because that’s what a forum should be about, the community.
So i wish my post would not have been deleted, so everyone could see exactly what horrible things i said. But we can not discuss it, so problem solved.
It appears CN does not consider this an actual community. Wondering about what happened to a fellow member who you might have been communicating with more over the course of several years than you might have with some family members, appears “not done”, even to a point where asking about it is a borderline bannable offence. It seems CN does only value its members as far as they can act as a revenue stream, going by the amount of adds that both the forum and the website are littered with, but mods are understaffed and do not get paid, so it’s clear our role shouldn’t be going beyond that of a revenue stream. A few thousands of members doing a few dozens of clicks per day. As long as they don’t ask questions or pose problems, surely.
Considering i did not divulge or address what i did to get banned, only what i didn’t do in order to avoid confusion, along with what i believe the forum admins/owners should look to improve and reflect upon, i don’t think i could/should be banned for what i have said up to this point. Especially since in the forum rules the admin linked me to in PM, say the “community team” is “happy to hear your criticism (and encourage it!)”.
Which is not to say i did not say or do anything against the forum rules. Because while i did not outright break any forum rules, i did imply things which should not be discussed in the regular forum. Mea culpa. So i will take it on the chin. But i can't help but assume the hysterical reactions by some posters are what made the mod pull the trigger.
In the chaos that ensued, after i had been assumed to be a despicable human being, i also asked the hysterical posters to think before posting. Then i also made a remark about Colbrelli having suffered from covid prior to his cardiac arrest. But it appears that was also misinterpreted in the chaos. I also don't think this was what warranted the ban.
So, there you have it.