Froome19 said:
Red, I have noticed in contrast to a number of moderators on the site you have become much less tolerant after stepping down as a moderator. I applaud you for it, but I also wonder why if you believed strongly about getting rid of all that rubbish then did you not take a firmer stance when moderating?
He did. You weren't listening. Don't blame yourself though. And actually, it would be more accurate to say 'you didn't hear'. As you probably were not present in a forum when he acted and spoke.
First said: I agree that we have some consistency and standards issues to address.
And, btw, Dr M, I apologize for the stfu. That was a little harsh, but I also felt, at the time, that being harsh might communicate something important to you and others. I'm not sure it did.
But, as for the rest of this mess: I'm done. I've tried to wade through this swamp. I can't make it through all the pages. Dr. Mas is guilty of trolling in a destructive sense. So is Race Radio. And more than a few others. Somebody is guilty of handing out the nick "vortex". And some of the mods are guilty of using it as a nick.
At the same time, I've seen the MOST rational and well-reasoned post by The Hitch that I have ever read from him. So the conversation is not all one way, and not all for a loss.
Dr Mas and RR - you are two of the posters whom I respect and honor the most - but just because of that, you are not free to post stuff you would think was not ok from another poster. And do not worry that I am singling you, alone, out. What I am saying holds true for several long-time posters.
REMEMBER THIS: trolling, in the destructive sense, is attempting to disrupt or destroy the forum, or the thread, the conversation, or a fellow poster.
Repeating yourself becomes trolling. Because repeating yourself generally destroys the conversation and/or the thread. It doesn't usually
a. convince anybody new of your wisdom and veracity
b. convince the argument opponent of your wisdom and veracity
c. otherwise make any difference in the truth of the world
But I will ask you, "dear reader", this: have you repeated yourself? Have we already heard your point? Are you adding anything new by repeating it?
I'm not handing out any "infractions" of any sort for the many posts in this thread, because I think this conversation, at the moment, is well-meaning and needful. I also think that many of the opinions are misguided, or at the least, unaware. Which is not a difficult place to get to, given the large amount of posts and conversations, and the limits on time to keep up with them.
I often find myself less aware than I would like, so I find it not useful to condemn another poster when they might only be in a similar situation.
But what I see here is argument for argument's sake - a fight - nothing more, nothing less.
I want to see it stop. As of this post. From here forward, I want to see everyone involved in this conversation - as 95% of you want, honestly, to see the forums bettered - to work towards better standards in these forums as a community. There are accepted methods for working towards better threads and better posting. Use them.
For my part, I will do my best to see that infractions are used first, instead of bans, and that light warning bans are light warning bans. But I will also add that the current ban usage was arrived at because the group experience was that lesser bans were less effective. EXPERIENCE MEANS SOMETHING. Especially group experience. I know, I know, it doesn't always mean what the group thinks it does - but it still deserves some respect. When light warnings are not effective, more extreme measures will have to take their place.
In addition, ALL of our posters will have to realize that "HUMOR" and sarcasm have been overused. 99% of the time that one of our respected posters has cried "troll", I have been able to find examples of the respected posters behaving in precisely the same fashion. If the #1 poster says someone is an idiot - and we allow it, that means we HAVE to allow the number "last" poster to say someone is an idiot. So then if the #1 poster says "its ok if they call me an idiot", what am I to do when #n poster says "its NOT ok, and I don't want to post if they are going to talk like that!". Nope - if it looks to us like you are trying to start a fight - you will have to abide by that decision. We have long-time posters who will not post in certain forums, because they are "inhabited" by long-time posters who believe themselves witty, and love sarcasm. I think we need some limits - but that means also that the community must recognize the limits.
I will tell you this - I will work towards providing consistency, fairness, and reasonableness in the moderation. I can say this with 100% confidence because I have already done so. I have invested many hours in collecting the words of wisdom, not just from the famous Francois, but from martin, and many others. I put them together for our mod squad. I have formatted them, as best I could, to provide guidance, and light the way. Do not talk to me about gold standards - because I have probably read more of the standards used by those leaders of old than you have. No - I shouldn't say that - too personally challenging - but I HAVE spent a hell of a lot of work and hours of my time to put this stuff together in a productive fashion. I also know, from what Francois and martin and others wrote, that THEY were not content they had provided consistency or fairness! I also know, from what they wrote, that some of our long-posting members have been a long-term push-the-edges-of-the-envelope problem. Obviously, they are also capable of writing posts with value - or else they would no longer be here.
Dan has put together a new set of rules, in some small part because of the work I did putting those pages of history and wisdom together. I think that will be a first step. No, I take that back - THIS THREAD is the first step. I don't think Dan has rolled out the new rule set yet. In this thread I want to see an end to this bickering. Bickering only makes you look like part of the problem. For those who have a SPECIFIC complaint - and I want to see references to specific posts - please post here. If all you are doing is continuing an unproductive and interminable argument - cease.
Thank you.