If "fruit for thought" means that we should be "less prudent" and be totally ok with people posting that they want someone to be brutally assaulted.... "I like my prudence."
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Again, what is it with these weird words. "Prude"? Have you looked at the Clinic and what we let through day in day out. Encourage even?
Come off it guys. The reason why you are facing pretty agitated mods is that we actually ask for very little, on balance, and initially always friendly, giving more things a lot more time than they deserved, out of respect for the poster and position we hold, overseeing a cycling forum where people are pretty damn free to say what they want, and do so day in, day out.
And a handful of you keep rallying against request to follow the house rules you signed up to when you joined the forum here, and simple requests to post civil and on topic (mostly).
Somehow it keeps being depicted as if we just proposed to go all Big Brother on you guys, and are really stopping you "giving your opinions".
Nope, we want to have some folk START giving opinions and STOP the messing about. See the difference?
On the hole, some of you, calm down. And please stop seizing on minor issues for over the top grand-standing, and give us some space to do our job.
BTW, If Cav would have said it here he would have had the same response as you had hektoren. We have been pretty consistent with these types of posts, and will remain so. Still not sure why you had to post the PM, or why I have egg on my face, or why you needed to put it like that. But if it helps you to get over a slap on the wrist, I hope it worked. It won't have done much else. Still, the post you made above sounds like you are reasonable enough, and get that it was deserved, etc, etc.
There is a difference between reporting what someone else said, and saying it yourself. That subtlety is lost in your "like for like" equation. The CN site is not more lenient than the forum. The moment a reporter would say that about a rider, I am sure they would face a less lenient ride than I gave you.
I appreciate the tone you took here. I tried to give a full reply as a consequence of that.