They are hypocrits as per usual.
Same people who were saying UAE should pulled earlier when Roglic was behind, now saying the complete opposite in this case.
Maybe you're talking about a specific poster or two, but I certainly don't see a lot of hypocrisy going on. On terrain such as this, of course they're not going to help Toddly. If they work with him, he will pick an opportune moment to jump away when Matteo is having a moment of weakness, perhaps after a pull, and it is not like Viggomort has the rapid acceleration to be immediately on the wheel.
I think the Visma strategy from the outset was to look at this as more or less as an energy conservation stage, and not to lose any time. And one could say with about 5 km left, that their strategy appears to be working.
Interestingly, we have seen that Remco has not maintained good awareness on where Toddly is in a few of the gravel sectors. Remco has improved to the gravel riding quite a bit, but I suspect it takes so much focus for him that it impacts his situational awareness of other racers.