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patricknd said:i'm not talking about the willing participant, i'm talking about the cheated on spouse. why would money really make a difference? i think cheating is cheating.
Morally, I'd agree with you. From the perspective of the cheater, it really doesn't matter all that much at all. I think that it can even be argued that cheating on a wife is much worse than cheating in a sporting event. I mean, if you cork a baseball bat, fiddle with the restrictor plate in NASCAR, or you jack up, like many athletes, I think it could be argued that, cheating on your wife is much worse than those things.
From the perspective of the victims of the cheater, the damages can vary greatly, from emotional distress, to large monetary losses.
Legally, I don't think divorce courts generally take marital indiscretions into account, but with public figures, I may be wrong. With such a public flouting of his marital vows, I think Tiger may have opened himself up for a world of financial hurt he might have otherwise not faced.
What put Lance Armstrong in a whole new light for me, was the cheating and divorce from his wife. After I saw his lies there, I tended to look at his other public pronouncements with a more jaundiced eye.
In the case of Bill Clinton, his indiscretions were nobody's business except his wife's, but his lying about them wasn't material at all to the issue at hand in court and the judge ruled that way after completely screwing up and playing into the hands of Ken Starr and the "vast right wing conspiracy."
Look at the people going after Clinton. Gingrich, who was cheating on his wife with a staffer at the time, and Bob Livingston who was carrying on his own affairs. Larry Flynt showed more decency than any of them when Livingston's wife asked Flynt not to publish details of Livingston's affairs because they were trying to reconcile and Flynt complied.
According to Scott, Starr could have asked Clinton if he ate at McDonalds, and if Clinton was eating breakfast, lunch, and dinner there, under oath said he never ate there, and Starr had the McDonalds security tapes proving it, he would be guilty of perjury