I had an experience two weeks ago that will forever make me a fan of carbon fiber frames.
I was descening a hill, going about 30 mph, when a car pulled out of a side road directly blocking me. I had the right of way and no way to stop. I went right into the back quarter panel and was flung over the trunk, landed so as to have my head bounce and came to rest on my hands and knees. By all accounts I ought to have just gotten out of the hospital, but I only spent an afternoon in the ER getting patched up.
My bike a 2006 Trek Madone 5.2 OCLV was destroyed. The steerer tube blew out of the headtube and the deep rim of my carbon wheels blew apart as wheel. The bar (also carbon) was obvioulsy cracked in multiple places under the bar tape. I'm convinced the carbon fiber is what save my skin.
I'm in the camp that the number of crashes this year has more to do with nerves, fatique and poor bike handling than anything else. There did seem to be a higher than normal amount, but I don't think the frame has anything to do with that, unless there was a material failure that would then cause a rider to go down, taking others with them.
As for postion, etc., I'm sure that like someone else pointed out this changes all the time and for each rider it will be different. I personally think the bikes look cooler with the bar & stem "slammed" down. Do I have my bike set up that way? No, but I still liked the set-up I had, because it fit and worked for me.
As for the OP, it does seem, while an interesting discussion has arisen, that they were trolling to some extent. I might have missed it, but it appears they have not responded since the post.