Andrichuk said:
First off I want to say I am questioning your belifes in this post. I am sincerely sorry if you find my post disrespectful in any way. If you do just ignore it. This isn't meant in any way to be disrespectful or hurtful, I'm just curious. We obviously have different points of view and I want to understand why.
You have every right to question me on anything because I have chosen to give my beliefs. Just don't be upset if I don't give you the answers you assume I will give you. From your tone, you differ little from an evangelical Christian in approach. Evangelical atheists are just as annoying as evangelical Christians.
Andrichuk said:
I think its situational how you benefit from believe or not believing in god. I understand some one using religion to get through a tough time such as a death of a close friend may make it easier, but following my current beliefs I still think its silly.
I don't "use" religion. That is what you don't understand.
Andrichuk said:
Do you think that religious people have better lives than Atheists? You don't think that something would of happened anyways if you didn't ask for help? The world doesn't revolve around you. Billions of living organisms on this planet, each with a slight impact. There is no way I can believe that a miracle happened when you asked for help, rather than a chain reaction involving you.
I don't think "better" is a very good evaluation term for a life. We all live in the best way we know how, "better" has nothing to do with it in terms of relation to the life of another. My life is better now than before, but I have no idea how that compares to the life of you or anyone else because we might very well evaluate our lives on completely different criteria.
I don't know what would have happened to me if I hadn't asked for help in the way that I did because I asked for help and what happened is what happened. This isn't a dungeon and dragons game where I can live out the effects of another choice.
Andrichuk said:
Say the 2 of us are training for the up coming season. Every week I follow what my coach says and I have a great season where as you ask for a good season as well as following your coach's training plan and also have an equally good season. Did you need god? would you have not of had a good season with out your prayer? Is everyone else better than you also required to pray?
My relationship with God does not function on that level, so I have no answer to your question. I don't ask him for gold or success.
Andrichuk said:
When people look at religion like this I can understand why some one would turn to it. If you feel lonely, or questioning the meaning of life, then why wouldn't you turn to god. Its reassuring to "know" the answer, or to have the company of some one with lots of power.
I didn't turn to God because I was lonely or was questioning the meaning of life. I turned to him because I was a freaked out drug addict who couldn't quit and wasn't getting any help from anyone I knew with that. I had run out of ideas and people with ideas and I just kept on blotting out existence as best as I could. All I did was get down on my knees one night (True fact: I had watched a Simpsons episode where Lisa had said "The last refuge of a scoundrel is prayer" so I figured I would give it a try), and over and over said "help." I walked into work a couple of days later, and a guy who had gotten sober asked me a simple question, "Are you ready to quit?" I said "yes." Then I was introduced to the program of Alcoholics Anonymous. It is a spiritual program, and is more successful than any treatment in the history of mankind for that problem. Far more successful in fact.
Andrichuk said:
If you know you don't get immunity why would you invest in it? Stupid question, people gamble all the time but what keeps you from thinking with in reason when asking for god to help you? Why don't you ask god to give you super powers so you can fly? I think people ask reasonable questions cuz they know there is a chance it could happen. For every action there is always an equal and opposite reaction.
I don't ask God for those things like super powers because they don't exist. I ask for things that you don't understand because you do not have faith. You would never understand what I pray for because we have a completely different base for our lives.
Andrichuk said:
Why wouldn't you hope for that? Its scary knowing everything you have ever done is meaningless if you just cease to exist once you die.
I don't believe in God because I am scared. In fact, fear takes me further from God.
Andrichuk said:
One last point from me. Why do you keep asking him for help. I think you get the same result when you don't believe in god. It will always be a 50% chance weather it works out or not. Guidance from god doesn't push give you a 55% chance of success. You say he doesn't always answer, but something still happens, even if its not your requested outcome, the world keeps moving.
Again, you think I ask for things and I don't.
Andrichuk said:
When you succeed without gods assistance, what do you think?
I live asking for God's help in very many things, but not for many things at all. God isn't a magic genie, and my relationship does not have that characteristic.
You think you know what I believe. You think you understand why I have a relationship with God. You assume that you can imagine the world I see through MY eyes. You are just like Pat Robertson in that. Problem is that you assume things you have no basis for understanding because you have not lived my life and seen through my eyes.
I have no idea why you believe what you believe, and frankly, don't care to. Your basis for living, atheism, holds no draw for me. I was an atheist, and it didn't work for me. If it works for you, then I have no problem with that, nor a desire to convince you it doesn't work. I don't mean this in a disrespectful way at all, but I only seek the opinions and advice of people who live in a way I would also like to live. If I wanted to learn how to make cake, I wouldn't go to a mechanic. I would go to a baker.