Parbar said:
As a cyclist, motorcyclist and cager, I'm quite conscious of the issues that face each mode of transportation. I'm sorry, but if I see a cyclist on the road breaking the law because someone told him an expert said what he was doing was the safer way to ride, I'm not going to be sympathetic. I'm not going to smile at his wave or his smile. I might even honk my horn at him, and I'd be more than happy to talk the situation over with the police if it came to that. Why? Because cyclists breaking the law give all cyclists a bad name and make it harder for all of us to get along on the roads.
Please do not honk at bicyclists just because you think he's doing something illegal, especially if it's a lane positioning/controlling situation. It is precisely this wrong-headed kind of thinking, that creates "crazy motorists" and makes cycling in traffic more challenging than it would otherwise need to be.
Parbar said:
Also, I disagree with how you put it that drivers' reactions say more about the cyclist than about the driver. In my area, it is a learned behavior for drivers who don't believe cyclists should share the road to honk and yell "get on the sidewalk" (even if there is no sidewalk).
Even with crazy drivers out there, who honk at bicyclists out of ignorance (like believing that cyclists are restricted to right third of a lane), I stand by my point. Encounters with crazy drivers cannot be eliminated. But what we can do is greatly reduce how often we frustrate them and cause them to go crazy, and that often means doing the opposite of what "common sense" might indicate.
For example, in a narrow lane the tendency for most bicyclists is to ride as close to the curb on the right as possible (most bicyclists are unaware that doing so is not practicable, and many states,
including Michigan, explicitly relieve bicyclists from riding near the right in narrow lanes). They think they're doing exactly what they need to do, but what they are doing is inviting overtaking motorists to try to squeeze into the lane, instead of changing lanes to pass. So what happens is a motorist is driving along, and is likely to ignore the bicyclist up ahead because he appears to be off to the side and irrelevant. By the time the motorist realizes he cannot pass because the lane is too narrow he is almost upon the cyclist, and by then the adjacent lane is occupied, so all he can do is slam on his brakes. He is frustrated, and honks. The cyclist gets mad... after all, he is already practically scraping his right pedal against the curb... what does the crazy motorist want from him? Neither knows, they're just both mad and frustrated.
Yet if the cyclist had been clearly occupying the full narrow lane by riding near the center (which is legal), the motorist would have been much more likely to notice the cyclist, and the need to change to pass, long before it was too late to change lanes and pass safely. This is exactly what is illustrated in those CyclistLorax videos, over and over. No honks. No close passes. Just calm, predictable, civil passing of slower traffic by faster traffic. Yes, the cycling in these videos might appear to be boring, but that's also the point. Cycling in traffic, even on narrow high speed arterials, does not have to be an adrenaline rush death defying activity.
Parbar said:
There is enough anti-cycling sentiment here that recently 2 morning drive-time DJs for a local radio station went on an 8-minute rant that cyclists should not be allowed on the road period. And frankly, I hold the view in life generally that when someone abuses (verbally or whatever) their fellow man, it says more about the abuser than the one abused.
When the abused makes himself or herself the victim, it says at least as much about the abused as the abuser.
I say again. If you're encountering uncomfortable situations with crazy or inattentive drivers several times a day or week, that indicates there is much you can do improve your behavior to reduce that rate of incidence to just a few times
per year.
If you get it down to a few times a year,
then you can blame the "crazy motorists". But, then, once you get it down to a few times a year, you won't have much to complain about. That's my main point here.