the big ring said:
I'm not sure of your motivation here.
But if it's to stop people from posting (which appears to be the case), by belittlling their motivations, fears, or what have you, I think and hope you will fail.
If you don't like this thread, you are free to not read it.
You are also free to post as you have, repeatedly.
But you're looking no better than the people you are demeaning.
You are EXACTLY right- even I don't know my motivations here
I don't know the people, or what happened- and, from what I have observed, peoples confidences were betrayed and it appears quite mean and nasty.
I'm only an outsider looking in
But I've seen this a hundred times before. Girls on facebook flame wars. I'm just asking- having read 50 or whatever posts of pretty serious character assasination- where was it going?
Was a more preferable solution to invite Joe to come here and engage and discuss? I accept he seems to be a snake in the grass so what is the point
But is that the point? At what point didn't people know he was a snake in the grass (allegedly apparently) and_not_know, you know, buyer beware?
It is simplistic to vent on CN because they didn't put up a nanny warning saying "hey, that guy everyone knows as a snake in the grass, is, a snake in the grass"?
By no means am I wanting to shut any discussion down. To be honest my high council works by having 12 guys draw a number. Odds defend the guy, evens gnashy their teeth on him. And once a decision is made there is no sin bin, its it well, annihalated.
I would prefer he puts his nads on the table and stumps up and answers reasonable questions which I do think should be answered- IF he intends to stay around or wants to clear his name.
I don't think crying to lawyers is a win for anyone- dig 2 graves and both parties lose money before they bury themselves.
I also accept that I am looking no better than the people I am commenting on. I truly don't want to demean anyone.
I wonder if this is the point. Here we have an anonymous web forum, and the ONE GUY we are dumping on for betraying us, is the ONLY one who goes by his actual name.
And he is what would appear to be a "known quantity"
So Chewbacca appears to be pooping bricks in anxious fear for his law career or whatever- but on what basis is he likely to be betrayed, how could he anyway, and can't he just deny it anyway....that is IF anyone a) believed it and b) cared?
What am I missing?
Is the following a solution to stop threads hyping up and getting deleted and then respawning in circles, and satisfy natural anonymous web forum justice?
Joe. If you aren't already banned and can read this. Rather than playing the legal game, are we all going to finish this easier if you come here and present your side as much as you can - under the premise that you will get a fair engagement free of venom from people here?
Barrus- would you be happy to engage in point by point non emotional discussion keeping emotion out of it?
Would it be fair that if the reasoned and balanced assessment was that Joe did not act in good faith (considering what may be circumstances or pressures people might not be aware of) you would be Memory Holed and accept a lifetime ban or whatever the CN Star Chamber decided?
Or maybe this happened before and the jury already returned and I am kicking up an old tree?