RedFury said:
1-There is a poster here making clearly bigoted and uninformed comments about Spaniards and Italians.
2-An adult -- me, in case you missed it -- comes in and calls him on his vile with a counter example of broad-brushing.
ok.. i assume this is aimed at me.. i missed the argument
ok.. firstly i did say i was generalising, but was in no way being racist.. it was not generalising
all spanish and italians.. i was in fact generalising
certain spanish and italian waiters who spend the tourist season seducing predominantly english women with their smarm, flowers and sexy accents.. I will point out that a large number of english bar staff do this as well with fake posh accents to impress foreign tourists, as do aussies and americans etc etc.. it wasnt intended as racism, it certainly wasnt generalising an entire race and i apologise if it appeared that way..
As far as bigotry goes, "requires the elements of obstinacy, irrationality, and animosity toward those of differing devotion." i do not beleive i am obstinate, or irrational and i dont have animosity towards entire races, just certain elements.. uninformed, maybe, i really am only going on stereotypes portrayed in media and on tv etc over the years, and reports from freinds after holidaying and experienceing themselves some of certain elements of society, but admittedly i have no first hand experience of spanish restuarants or waiters..
Mental health issues, i have made some aware of the difficulties i have in another area of the forum, but they dont effect my ability to think, have opinions, or make decisions, i purely worry about things slightly more than i should and occasionally get scared of irrational objects..
apologies again if it offended you, was not intended that way, its what comes of being brought up in a country living on fawlty towers, benny hill and monty python.. stereotyping is rife, and generally aimed at ourselves...
and having apologised for any offence i may have unintentionally of caused you, i will leave it at that. i didnt realise id caused such a stir, initially my comment seemed to be taken as the humour it was intended to be..
rata de sentina said:
thehog is just smarting because he got his wrist slapped by the mods. The rip-off comment is tit for tat sooking which made me chuckle.
for my own self control ive put him on ignore.. that way i may be able to keep my mouth under control.. best all round