Dear Wiggo said:I am not going to forget hatred. It's a word that gets bandied around here and is what I was responding to. Let him speak for himself.
I dislike cheating. The act of cheating. Perhaps it's just semantics, but I am not going to dislike a cheater because someone tells me I have to. I think Cadel cheated. I like Cadel. He is far more than his cheating, so much more. As is every other person. SO no, I do not hate or even dislike cheaters. I dislike unlikeable people.
If that's not how you operate, then fine. I can accept that. But I have forgiven people who have wronged me and mine, most grievously, and can tell you there is more power in forgiveness than hatred.
No. All you can say is your reading comprehension is off-kilter.
Disliking cheating, yes sure, that can be an objective notion.
Disliking a person because they cheat? F*ck no. That's immaturity or myopic.
I embrace my flaws, and accept them. I can therefore accept others in their flaws.
The world needs more acceptance and understanding and less hate, judgement and "objective dislike of people". It's what leads to conflict and war.
Indeed you are correct, I misread Walkman's original post and proceeded to use the same terms, somewhat unconsciously. Dislike cheating, yes, not necessarily the cheater. I agree with you, otherwise would be incoherence from me. I'm sorry for the confusion.