ChrisE said:
"Coming out" usually means publicly, and that is what I was alluding to.
No, "coming out" can also be used to refer to telling people close to you, or telling acquaintances, or "coming out" to the whole world.
Here is a nice little article that talks (at the end) about being more "out" in some settings than in others. I'm guessing the Gay Lesbian Resource thingy knows more about "coming out" than you (or I).
http://www.psychpage.com/learning/library/gay/outparents.html
ChrisE said:
I am sure he told others within his inner circle.
ChrisE said:
He came out after the first time (allegedly) he decided to spill his secret was to somebody he didn't know, to expose LA.
Which of those is not like the other?
ChrisE said:
I find it way beyond bizarre that somebody would share something like that with a stranger, whatever the motivation.
Just because YOU find something bizarre, does not make your opinion "true." I find it bizarre that someone would jump out of a nice safe airplane. But people do, all the time. Heck, they even think it is really fun.
ChrisE said:
You wrote it 'took balls' to come out publicly, and I replied that he was forced to. You clear that up in your next statement so kudos to you.
Lemond could have given into the blackmail. He could have changed his story - ala McIlvain. Or he could have pretended to be ill and not testified, etc...
He was not forced to come out publicly. He was forced into a choice "testify and have your secret reveled" or "don't testify and keep your secret safe." He chose the latter, which, in my book, takes balls.
ChrisE said:
All we know is what is in the public realm, thus all we know is it happened with FL.
Yes, all we know as fact is what was reveled publicly. Which is why "we" can't support arguments with statements like this:
ChrisE said:
He came out after the first time (allegedly) he decided to spill his secret was to somebody he didn't know, to expose LA.
ChrisE said:
Maybe GL called up Ben Johnson and told him. Maybe he called up Delgado after he got popped for that masking agent in 88 and told him. Maybe he did call up TH and told him, called Garzelli, called Rumsas, called up that East German chick with hair under her arms, hell called everybody that got popped before 2006 all for the sake of extolling the virtues of not having secrets. We don't know if that happened or not.
ChrisE said:
He came out after the first time (allegedly) he decided to spill his secret was to somebody he didn't know, to expose LA.
Again, which of these is not like the other?
Yes, we don't know how much he was in the habit of "coming out" to people, as you admit. So if he may have been calling Ben Johnson and sharing his secret, or calling up 'that East German chick with hair under her arms' and telling her, 'extolling the virtues of not having a secret.'
Then how can we conclude that he
only told Landis as a way to get to Armstrong?
It would be more accurate to say 'he may have told Landis to offer advice that it's not good to have big secrets, or he may have been using his secret to get to Armstrong.'
I mean, you're welcome to conclude whatever you want. But I'm not so quick to jump to the conclusion that Lemond is a horrible guy, just using his secret to get Armstrong, when there are other possible conclusions to draw.
ChrisE said:
You tell me, outside of your vacuum.
I know you are just trying to get me riled up with a dig. But honestly, it such a weird dig, that it is more head scratching than upsetting. How can I be both 'a survivor of child sexual abuse' and 'in a vacuum?' Vacuum implies that I have no experience / knowledge and doesn't make sense in this situation.
Now, if we were arguing about jumping out of nice, safe airplanes, you could accuse me of operating in a vacuum.