red_flanders said:
You're making the assumption we all read all the forums and the mod in question (might well have been me) came back to the thread to see this change. We don't. Nor do we feel the need to personally address every deletion or discuss it.
I have to say Red, this is an outrageous, laughable, and ultimately entirely unacceptable response.
You "might have" deleted my post? We're talking about the Cafe here, not the Clinic! How many posts get deleted in the Cafe? How many posts in the Cafe are dealt with by someone other than Alpe or Susan? You delete so many posts in the Cafe that you can't remember? I find that really, really hard to believe. Or, it wasn't you, but one of your colleagues who hasn't got the decency or guts to own up in public.
The point is, there was at most one word, or one phrase, in a very long post, a post that had already attracted a red mark from Susan, that might have conceivably been construed as being remotely offensive. It was, therefore, overkill of a gross and uncalled for nature to delete the entire post.
Mods have to have leeway in making judgement calls on such items, there is logistically no way for us to synch on all such matters, so your expectation should reflect this reality.
In effect, you're admitting that the right hand has no idea what the left hand is doing behind the scenes. Once a post has been 'marked' or 'punished' by one mod, it surely should not be the business of another mod to then decide to delete the entire post - without comment, feedback, or informing the poster. This is a disgracefully sloppy state of affairs, and you should truly be ashamed to use this as any kind of excuse.
For important matter such as bans, we do often (but not always) consult one another for feedback and histories.
I mod on a large forum that has existed since 1999. Like here, the mods/admins are all volunteers. No one has ever been banned there without prior consultation and some consensus of opinion amongst mods/admins. If CN intends for this forum to still exist in 2022, I would seriously suggest that you all start acting a little more 'professionally' so as to avoid situations where none of you claim to know who deleted a certain post, or why, and where the mod in question doesn't have the guts to justify his actions. It is no great shame to make a mistake, we're all human and mistakes can and do occur. Have the balls to admit to a mistake, or ****-up, instead of maintaining a mask of 'we're so busy' and 'we usually get it right'. Again, we're not talking about the Clinic!!!
Personally, I delete offending posts liberally instead of closing threads or banning people for repeat rule violations. One way to avoid all this is to stop violating the forum rules and police yourself.
This comment in no way addresses my specific issue. As you know perfectly well, I'm talking about the Cafe in general, and the US politics topic in particular. I'm sure that not even you would claim that is a hotbed of unacceptable activity, one that requires more policing than Alpe gives it. Nor do I believe that you have ever had cause to "liberally" delete posts from the US topic. Ergo, IF you deleted my post, you know perfectly well that you did so - don't come with this "I might have" bs to suggest that there were so many deletions that you just can't remember.
We really do try to do the right thing here. It would be much easier if you all did as well. If you are, this doesn't apply to you. Thanks.
Part of doing the right thing should be that you inform and explain about the occasional deletion that may take place in the usually laid back and trouble free Cafe. I can understand that you may not feel the need to explain a mass troll deletion in the Clinic, but this case is very different. I still want to see one of you stand up, take responsibility, admit to deleting my post, and explain why that was felt to be the right thing to do after it was clear that the post had already been 'punished' by a colleague.
Part of doing the right thing is also being honest, and not hiding behind 'it might have been me but I delete so much that I'm not sure'. Which, as I'm sure you must realize, sounds like utter bull when talking about the Cafe.