trailrunner said:We've already answered your questions: they did not think that it was morally wrong (except for Betsy). Once they reached that decision, it was just another aspect of being married to a bike racer, like filling water bottles before a ride. It's not that complicated.
Exactly. You have answered the questions. Men (I presume, correct me if I'm wrong) who haven't been in that position, are explaining a woman's motivations and feelings and how that ultimately affected a relationship. That's the equivalent of me explaining how it feels to be kicked in the n*ts. I can guess, but at the end of the day I have NFI. The questions I'm throwing out here are not necessarily to be answered here, but more to be thought about in a wider context in the life of the doper.
Bassons brought up the relationship and family dynamic, to fill a need (love, money), as a possible motivation for a doper. Most people would assume the doper dopes simply to win, Bassons believes there are far more complex psychological factors at play. I believe the same about the enablers, the partners. So yes, I do think it is more complicated than you do. That doesn't make either of us right or wrong, it just means we see it differently.
trailrunner said:You are over thinking this. Substitute "filling water bottles" for "doping" and you have your answer.
You don't think that knowledge, or dirt, equates to power in relationship? If reports are to be believed, you don't think what Kik Armstrong knew equated to power at the settlement table? You don't think she was well rewarded for her silence?
You don't think a doping athlete that wants out of a relationship has to be very careful about how they extract themselves from that relationship and how they treat their former partner considering the knowledge the partner has?
I'm astounded anyone is that naive.
Like I said, I've read most of the research out there on the athlete relationship. The use of power within those relationships is anything but simple. I can't see the dynamic for cyclists would be all that different. Add in the doping, and I would guess it would become more complicated. Not in every relationship, but in some.
I was mainly throwing questions out there hoping someone had read something, anything from the view of the partners. But it seems no-one has. All anyone has done is guess as to the motivations, as have I. I'll just keep looking.