I understand the confusion, it's come up more than once. CX-Rays and Aerolites are virtually identical on the surface, the difference is that Sapim uses a higher quality stainless steel and more advanced forging and finishing processes than DT which is no secret, it's all out there for all to see. I admit might sound a bit subjective, but the quality of the material does result in a stronger spoke, albeit small differences, I'm convinced. I've done my own non-scientific bench tests comparing DT and Sapim quality of manufacture, and Sapim wins every time, and not just CX-Ray vs. Aerolite, it's runs the gamut, Race vs. Comp, and Laser vs. Rev. In the end DT is good enough and is widely available, good for bike shops, seeing as how they have manufacturing and distribution right in your backyard Bustedknuckle. Sapim is the best, but a much smaller company, and a favorite amongst pro wheel builders, how it's been for years.
CX-Rays are available to you just like everybody else, you just don't know how to deal with KHS. I'm not arguing either, but we've gone down this road before in the earlier pages of this thread.