Chris, I'm very much aware of everything said in your post, and much more. In fact, I'll even point out a couple of things the authors of that otherwise excellent review missed. While they cited Papineni and Rosenthal, they didn't mention a much more recent study by Stadnytskyi et al. (2020) using lasers to identify much larger particle quantities (and sizes) than other studies That came out too recently for them to include.
Second, and this is a serious omission, while they talk about different size particles, how long they can stay in the air, how much they are dehyrated, to what extent they may be blocked by masks, and so on, they never address the crucial fact that the size of the particle is proportional to how much virus it contains. Thus small particles are much less likely to be infectious than large particles, and in fact that study by Stadnytskyi et al points out that there is a vanishingly low probability that very small particles will contain any virus at all. This is based on studies of the virus concentration in saliva, and even the highest concentrations reported in a few individuals at their peak indicate that a 1 um particle will very rarely contain even a single virus--and this is after dehydration, which converts particles in the range of 3-5 um to 1 um in size. Even fairly large particles won't contain that many copies on average, which makes questions of the infectious dose and the amount of particles inhaled critical. And even these calculations based on saliva concentration don't take into account that many of the viral copies may be degraded and thus not infective.
Wrt masks some studies find homemade masks are much better than other studies do. E.g., one of the links I posted found that cloth masks were actually superior to N95. Another reported that cloth masks blocked 95% of particles, vs. 97% for surgical masks, and 99+% for N95. A lot of the differences depend on the size range of particles studied, the temperature and humidity. Given that, as I said before, we don't know how much transmission is through what sizes of particles, it would be foolish to think masks can't make the difference between getting infected and not getting infected in some situations. The second sentence in the Abstract makes this point: "Undeniably, although such practices help control the COVID-19 pandemic to a greater extent, the complete control of virus-laden droplet and aerosol transmission by such practices is poorly understood."
But questions about the efficacy of homemade masks is not what is driving the view of not opening schools. In the first place, it's difficult to get very young kids to wear any masks. In the second place, no one believes that even N95 masks, or their Euro FFP equivalents, will prevent all transmission. Again, second sentence in the Abstract. If it were that simple, we could open up everything as long as everyone wore a mask. No one is claiming that, I'm certainly not. All I'm saying is that masks do have an effect, and that article you cite doesn't contest that.