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Dallas_ said:Now to state my opinion, which I presume many on both sides of the fence will disagree with and maybe even get hostile. FI, I do not care, my opinion has to be heard.
To put it bluntly, I am suspicious of ANY statement emerging from WonderBoy's lips.
But, HIS CANCER WAS NEVER AT THE LEVEL HE CLAIMED.
I'm not sure why you are expecting a hostile reaction to this.
The last several posts in this thread have been exceptionally reasonable.
Suspicious of ANY statement from WonderBoy? Ummm, yes. Me too.
Self-serving exaggerations of his cancer? I've always felt the same way.
My mom was a nurse who worked for several years in the office of an oncologist. The typical "conversation around the dinner table" at our house was her retelling of the stories that she was faced with during the day. It was cathartic for her as these were mostly very, very sad stories and she is very empathetic by nature. So growing up, I heard an awful lot of stories of the struggles associated with cancer. Obviously, some of the patients survived, some did not. A friend of mine battled cancer for many years, seeing many different specialists but with little resolution. His condition was complex and answers were hard to come by. At my suggestion he eventually sought yet another opinion from the doctor that my mother worked for. Another procedure was performed, but some years later he eventually succumbed to the disease and lost his life.
What's the point of that story?
Having heard the details of many, many different types of cancer and the results of different types of treatments, I was never all that impressed with what Lance described in terms of his condition or recovery. Does that seem like a harsh assessment? Well, let's be clear: Lance was trying to impress everyone with the description of his "miraculous recovery."
Reading about his chemo treatment, is his first book, he describes the process as consisting of "four cycles in the space of three months." He then goes on to describe, "At first it wasn't so bad; by the end of the second set of treatments I just felt sickish and constantly sleepy." He describes the next two cycles in much grimmer terms, including this: "By the fourth cycle I was in the fetal position retching around the clock."
I have certainly never experienced the horrors of chemo, and I hope I never do.
But I've seen, firsthand, others go through much worse in terms of length of treatments and ultimate outcomes. Amputation being one example; death, of course, being quite another. And sadly, my perspective is hardly unique.
And while I'm on the topic...
It could be easily argued that Contador came much closer to death (if that is supposed to be the measuring stick of one's heroics) when he crashed and went into convulsions on the side of the road. I found that footage to be extremely disturbing to watch; not to mention scary as hell. He was diagnosed with a cerebral cavernoma, and he too underwent what was considered to be very risky brain surgery.
The story of Contador's recovery is sometimes retold when there is a feature on him, but it has hardly become his rallying cry nor has he built his image around it. Now, I'll admit, this story may be much bigger in Spain, I really don't know. But the American media hardly mentions it.
The narrative is only effective if Lance is the only one to have overcome some great physical and psychological setback.
The other thing that greatly offends me about Lance's "story"—or that of any other high-profile celebrity—is that quite often they try to paint a picture of their own suffering as somehow being more noteworthy than the average citizen's simply because they are...celebrities (you think Michael Jordan was the only person to lose a parent in a tragic manner?). What often gets overlooked in these grand tales is that for the average person that is stricken with a tragic condition, life does not have a pause button. They have to go back to work, often during treatment. They don't have endorsements to fill their bank accounts or sports-related companies willing to step in and provide insurance coverage. The average person will face many, many other obstacles that they elite athlete never will.
To reiterate: I don't buy into anything that comes out of Wonderboy's mouth either.