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JV1973 said:A few of you react to me almost identically to girlfriends that I dumped back in the day; emotional, angry, upset, name calling. And it just goes on and on and on and on... It's kind of funny.
You've spent more energy on me than most teenage girls spend on Justin Beiber crushes.
Hate isn't the opposite of love, apathy is. I love you too, Dear Wiggo, but I'm married.
In terms of personality types, most people, or many people, are not able to hear or read neutral comments. You are either praising them, or condemning them, no matter what you say or how you say it.
It would appear you are this sort of person.
Someone (ultimobici) is saying a rider of your calibre should not have to take 6 months off like every other single active person from the USADA reasoned decision (Levi, Zabriskie, now Matt White, etc), because you ended your career early, which was punishment enough for a rider of your calibre.
I checked. You weren't that much of a standout in the day and age of your cycling career.
This is a neutral observation, but pcmg (in ensuing posts), and you, are clearly taking this as me saying you were a crap rider, or a poor rider. You only see it negatively.
Not at all.
You were on a contract in Europe - by definition you were in the cream of the crop. One of the top 2-300 cyclists of the time. Incredible physiology and ability as a cyclist.
But as an individual at that time, doping or not, you were not - I believe - the cream of the cream of the crop. According to CQ, You didn't finish a GT. pcmg says you crashed twice and got stung by a bee.
Cadel broke his elbow and finished the Tour.
Tyler broke his collar bone and finished the Tour.
Hincapie finished 17 Tours.
Because I do not try to stroke your ego, or worship your words, and question the validity or logic of what you write here (hypoxia from a TT???? really???? 15W for 6 hours is 1000 calories? really????), I am perceived as someone who hates you, by you and those who clearly like or love you. Or those people who cannot read a statement without labeling it "negative" or "positive" - which may be a lot of people, and probably is.
You will just have to take my word for it that I treat everyone like this.
I am well aware of the opposite of love, and believe me, my feelings towards you as a person, are apathetic.
If we go back to personality types, mine is the one who does not give a flying fat rat's tail about position or title. If you are the janitor or the CEO, I will treat you the same way, with the same respect.
I respect people for what they do.
And I hate lying, with a passion.
So if you lie, or make stuff up - and you do - I am going to hate that. I understand it is difficult to separate the hating of an action from the hating of the actor, but again, you will have to take my word for it.
The irony of the claim of "name calling" is ironical. You really do just say or type the first thing that comes into your head. I have never called you a name, and cannot bring to mind anyone else doing so. But I do recall references to monkies from yourself.
ultimobici said:While JV wasn't sanctioned, he did effectively do it to himself. He quit European cycling aged 29, having asked for his contract to be dissolved 18 months early. Barely a year later, aged 30 he retired completely. Not what I'd have expected for a rider of his calibre.
Why didn't you have to take a 6 month break from cycling team? Why were you not sanctioned? Why are there no question marks over your ability to return to the peloton, like there are for Matt White, or Levi, etc?
