Froome19 said:
Thats the whole point he does do stupid things but does that truly justfy such hatred?
Everybody does stupid things and even if he does it more than others i would not say that that is something which can determine Cavendish's personality and morality.
Does it justify the hatred? Well, it has to depend on your opinion of the actual actions. However, like many star sportsmen, Cavendish polarises the audience.
I don't dislike Cavendish himself per se, but I do resent the way anything he does breeds arguments. There are those who'll attack him whatever he does, which can be annoying, but I find those who will defend him whatever he does, those conspiracy theorists who feel like Cavendish never does anything wrong, to be more annoying. I also dislike the way he races, not because of what he does himself but simply because that breed of race annoys me. He shouldn't change THAT to suit me, I just wish fewer races were like that, and the strength of his teams in the last couple of years has led to lots of potentially interesting races becoming exceedingly boring.
Like hrotha said with the analogy of the wifebeater; Cavendish does some obnoxious things in the spur of the moment. Being apologetic afterwards doesn't stop those things from being obnoxious though, they just show that he's capable of maturity when he has time to think; when he doesn't he can be a ***. However, some of the negative stories are exaggerated (the alleged spitting on the floor becoming spitting on Haussler in the re-telling) and can be tempered by moments of great human compassion and positivity of character (he has been absolutely brilliant to Jonny Bellis this last two years, and that there can be denying). That doesn't mean it's not ridiculous when people try to paint his treatment of Greipel, or his flipping off the crowd at Romandie, or some of his interview comments, as him being all cute and cuddly and people being offended too easily. He has, wittingly or not, conducted quite an effective smear campaign about Greipel; a lot of utter nonsense has been posted about the German in thread upon thread over the last two years.
Too many people seem to think that morality is like a lightswitch, either on or off. Cavendish, like anybody else, is a nuanced individual who is capable of being both a heroic character and true friend, and a complete and utter tool, sometimes within the same moment. But he's doing it in more of a media fishbowl, and with more violent swings between them (and more visible moments of being a tool).